As far as it concerns us,
however, we should be willing to suffer hurt and be wronged instead oflashing out at others yindictively. Rather than fighting to be right, weshould fight to be one. - P70
The healthof our church family is far more important than winning petty squab-bles. Of course, this is not an excuse to allow people to take advantageof one another, but it is a call to become more mature and graciousin how we handle conflict. Let us take responsibility for our mistakesand extend mercy to others. - P71