I. The need or issue.
1. The given information of the aging population in America.
⑴ data on continuing increase of the older population.
In recent Japan which has the large older population determined five National Task Forces for the new millenium among which is 'Silver Industry Task Forces.' This is a fast move to the coming demographic change and the consequence of recognizing the importance of older population in the next century.
Dorsia Carson points out the predictions which can be inferred from 1994 data from the U.S. Bureau of the Census as follows:
1. Since 1900, the percentage of Americans over age sixty-five has more than tripled.
2. A Child born in 1993 could expect to live seventy-five and a half years, about twenty-five years longer than a child born in 1900.
3. About 2.1 million people celebrated their sixty-fifth birthday in 1994 (5,600 per day). In the same year, about 1.7 million people sixty-five or older died, resulting in a net increase of 385,000 (1,050 per day).
4. By 2030, there will be about 70 million older people, more than twice the number in 1990.
5. People sixty-five years and older are projected to represent 13 percent of the population in the year but will represent 20 percent by 2030.1)
This shows how the demographic texture of this society will be gradually dominated by the older population. Considering this social trends it is no wonder that many churches has had increased percentage of older membership in a few decades.
Richard H. Gentzler mentions the characteristic phenomena of the older population. First, older women outnumbers older men. This proportion is conspicuous in middle older (75+) and oldest older (85+) than young older adults (65+).2) Second, in 1994 remarriage ratio is doubled in older men compared with older women because older men can hardly live alone and because men tend to marry women younger than themselves.3) Third, even though having one or more chronic symptoms, majority of older people has confidence in their health. "According to results of the 1989 Health Statistics, nearly seventy-one percent of older adults living in the community described their health as excellent, very good, or good."4) Fourth, the poverty rate for older people is almost the same as the other age group. According to the statistics of 1994 the poverty rate for older population was 11.7 percent, while the poverty rate for sixty-four and below was 11.9 percent. On the basis of such evidences, Gentzler asserts the necessity of eliminating the stereotypes concerning older people. The myths which must be removed from our society are:
1. As people grow older, their ability to learn decreases.
2. Older adults want to disengage from life.
3. Older adults are in poor health.5)
Therefore, it is necessary to help younger generations be aware of the reality concerning older people and older generations live in a positive way. In this respect the FACES statements are noteworthy.
1. Finding worth in one's being, not through having or doing.
2. Accepting one's life journey and faith story.
3. Confronting losses and acknowledge our gains.
4. Experiencing a new (or renewed) relationship with God.
5. Serving the needs of others.6)
⑵ church's unpreparedness for the ministry of aging.
Many churches including my congregation are being filled with older people. They are unburdened from child care, goal pursuit, preparation for future achievement. They have much more time, money, and talents than other generations. Furthermore, they are in the stage of maturing, so that they can contribute to the younger generations by their own wisdom more powerful and necessary than accumulated information and knowledge. Therefore, we pastors should recognize the importance of older people within the church boundary and out, empower their own people to move toward the positive living even in the late life.
2. The Purpose.
The purpose of this project paper is threefold. First, it is to encourage the older to tell their own experience. The older persons are usually silent in the church because they would not bother other people. The project could give an opening chance for them to speak in front of many, not in private.
Second, it is to help the younger generations to understand the older people, learn wisdom from them, and find out their needs. I and my young adults are willing to help the older persons. But we have no full understanding of our older adults, have little chance to learn from them, don't know how to help them.
Third, it is to recognize the importance of the ministry of aging in Lubbock Korean UMC. When this congregation was first established in Lubbock, Texas, its members were twenties to forties. Now 19 years later after that they have grew older with the church. Twenties became forties, thirties fifties, and forties sixties. We have six older persons over sixty out of thirty adults. They are 20% of the whole adult membership. It is a new, if gradual, phenomenon considering nineteen years ago Lubbock Korean UMC had 0% of over sixties. In this respect it is, therefore, necessary for us to recognize how important the ministry of aging in Lubbock Korean UMC is and to find out how to deal with it.
II. Aging perspectives.
1. What perspective or theory guides this concern?
I observe two theories may be appropriate for the situation of Lubbock Korean: contiunity theory and development theory.
According to Robert C. Atchley the continuity theory of aging "first arose out of an examination of how elders cope with retirement, and how retirement influenced identity and self...In retirement their identities contained a strong element of continuity with the self of the past."7) From that observation Atchley propose the continuity theory which "implies a vision of one's past, present, and future as interconnected."8) Life is an non-stop evolutionary process of "the conscious, continuous, intentional development and maintenance of the human personality and self and the external arrangements that support them."9) The goal of such evolution is growth.
Atchley discerns internal continuity from external. Internal continuity is the "persistence of a structure of ideas and memories...formed by the values, beliefs, knowledge, worldview, philosophy of life, and moral framework that are the core of the personality."10) He identifies religious faith as taking an important role in the growth of internal continuity. External continuity is the "existence over time of geographical location, relationship, and activities."11) Atchley points out religious activities will contribute to the enrichment of external continuity.
The development theory of aging emphasizes the "connections between physiological characteristics, personality, the environment, and societal factors which intersect in ways that make it possible to identify and examine developmental tasks which persons experience as they move through the life span."12) The characteristics of the older adult era is described as follows:
LATE ADULT ERA
Integrity vs. despair
Ego differentiation vs. work-role preoccupation
Body transcendence vs. body-preoccupation
Ego transcendence vs. ego preoccupation13)
By introducing the faith development model of James Fowler Vogel asserts that older people have much chance to enhance their own level of faith from "Synthetic-Conventional Faith" (Stage 3) to "Individuative-Reflexive Faith" (Stage 4) and "Conjunctive Faith" (Stage 5).14) But not all wants to move to growth. For this reason Vogel points out the necessity of reeducation to empower older men and women to "learn new roles and new ways of relating with others."15) It is his assertion that when moving to the higher level of faith development older people grow toward making meaning, nourishing souls, and wholeness in spirituality.
2. What are the assumptions or knowledge about older adults that drives this concern?
My assumptions before the action ministry were threefold. The first was that the older persons grieve losses. This implies I presumed they were grieving various kinds of losses rather than moving on through. The second was that the older persons are well prepared for retirement. I believed they were well informed, well prepared, ready to go on retired life. The third was that the older persons have adaptations with regard to aging. I presupposed they have been well adapted to getting older in various respects. Those assumptions were just personal based, non-reflexive knowledge. And they will be examined in the later section.
III. Theological perspective.
1. What theological perspective or issues guide this concern?
Process perspective.
I believe aging is a natural process. Actually everything is moving and changing. Just as process thinkers assert, process is actuality of all phenomena, natural and spiritual. I want to opt a process perspective.
⑴ Doing and Being.16)
Aging is considered losing sensations and activities. It is true in some respect. But in other respect when getting older you may obtain intuitions while losing sensational data. You have probably worked for social recognition or self-satisfaction. When you were young you had to move on and on for higher achievements, so that you might be under less enjoyment of what you were doing. But if you are getting older and older, you may simply enjoy what you are doing. In this respect old age is the time for enjoyment and celebration.
⑵ The Attainment of Peace.17)
Throughout lifetime we are peaceless so many times. Many components operate in our peaceless life. From Christian perspective when you move toward your own direction you lose peace as St. Augustine of Hippo pointed out. For this reason we regards God's call and following it as so important in attaining peace in our spiritual journey.
According to process theory God's call is unique to everybody in every moment. You don't need compare yourself with others. If you respond to God's love, your response has itself value. But many times you try to think your love with regard to contribution to many. Your loving has itself meaning and value without regard to how significant you make contributions to the existence of God and neighbors. In this way your spiritual journey passes naturally into peace.
⑶ The Contribution of Wisdom.18)
The modern human beings tend to accelerate the accumulation of knowledge. Computer has contributed to this phenomenon. So younger generations tend to take older people as less competent in information society and as even useless. But human life is sustained not simply by the quantity of knowledge but profoundly by the quality of knowledge, that is, wisdom.
We Koreans are to respect the old because they have accumulated wisdom more precious than knowledge in constructing better society. Younger generations have pursued some goals, so tend to view realities from such goal-pursuing perspective. It is never easy for them to move beyond that perspective. But older generation may stand and see from different perspective. Their different perspective will inspire and enrich younger generations. With regard to contribution to society by wisdom none of generation can match for the older generation.
⑷ Dying.19)
Dying is fearful. We tears when we lose our beloved. If you feel so painful at a certain death, you may deplore and deteriorate into depression. But human living is not simply natural. It is more than that. It has the spiritual dimension.
From Christian-process perspective dying is not disappearing but being accepted by God in eternity. I have pondered how I must understand death. If God really loves me, how can he allow me to perish? What if I die suddenly in a flight or car or boat? Where goes my endeavors to love, achieve, and sacrifice?
A year ago Hangul & Computer the Korean software company was about to become bankrupt. It was dying because many people including government officials used that program by illegal copies. When Bill Gates tried to purchase that company and to eradicate the soil of Korean software industry, Koreans began to purchase the softwares of Hangul & Computer. In recent the company has recovered its financial standing. When it was not loved by people it was about to disappear. But when people began to love it, it came to survive.
Everybody knows Coke is not good for health. But the company has lived for almost a century because many people throughout the countries have loved Coke. No matter how vicious it is to our health, as far as loved by many people, it will survive longer.
Likewise, any existence loved by God the eternal will live eternally, never perish. In the face of immediate death we have nothing to comfort those in losses. I feel deeply sorrowful. But God is love, and his love is never ending. Whoever is loved by God the enternal will never perish but be cherished by God eternally, so that we may have courage to be and to die. This is what we believe based on biblical witnesses and supported by process philosophy.
IV. Action ministry.
1. A meeting of 6 older persons and 6 younger adults.
A meeting was held on Sunday Oct. 31, 1999. Participants were 6 older persons and 6 younger adults. We had three hour discussion guided by three main questions for the older people to answer I had already prepared. Older people were main speakers, but younger adults allowed to ask or comment. I designed that discussion not a free discussion lest we might get out of the focus to which we were planning to achieve.
2. Response of the invited.
When I made phone calls to the anticipated participants for this meeting, all were curious about the purpose, "What for?" or "Why?" After my explanation was provided, the older people replied, "O. K. I will be there"; however the younger people still quest me, "Why me?" or "Am I supposed to be there?" With all weirdness we gathered together for the older adults talk we'd ever officially had in our church history.
3. Data on the participants.
|
age group |
age |
marital status |
whom live with |
education |
job |
|
the older people
(60-65) |
65 |
married |
spouse |
middle school |
factory worker |
|
65 |
married |
spouse |
high school |
self-employed |
|
64 |
married |
spouse |
elementary |
housewife |
|
63 |
married |
spouse |
elementary |
factory worker |
|
62 |
married |
spouse |
elementary |
factory worker |
|
62 |
married |
spouse |
college (2 yrs.) |
self-employed |
|
the younger
people
(31-51) |
51 |
married |
spouse and 2 children |
high school |
housewife |
|
49 |
married |
spouse and 1 child |
middle school |
housewife |
|
47 |
married |
spouse and 3 children |
middle school |
housewife |
|
45 |
married |
spouse |
middle school |
housewife |
|
31 |
single |
- |
now in PhD |
student |
|
31 |
single |
- |
now in PhD |
student |
4. Questions
#1: What are the physical symptoms of your aging?
(This question is designed to identify aging around my older people.)
․vision problem
The first responses were vision problem. One of them said, "We cannot see small letters without glasses. We are very thankful for our pastor that he deliberately prints the church bulletin with large letters on our behalf."
․avoid driving at night
Most of the older adults responded they avoided driving at night, drive at daytime.
․arthritis/chronic pain
All of them complained their muscle and bone pain.
․memory loss
All of them agreed they were getting older from the perspective of memory problem. One of them said, "I am getting foolish and useless." Memory problem was, I found, attacking their usefulness.
․loss of acquaintances
There were real grief and fear when the older persons lost their friends, family members, relatives, acquaintances. One of them said, "Death is no other's business any longer." They were seriously taking into consideration the death issue.
․slow to respond
Older persons said in common, "We are slow to respond because of vision problem, hearing problem, and other physical hindrances.
#2: What are the significant issues of your life?
(This question is designed to understand their issues or needs.)
․retirement
We spent almost two hours for the retirement issue. This signifies that my older adults are very concerned in it because their age is between sixty and sixty five. Two men who were running or preparing a small business were relatively pathetic in talking that issue but a lot concerned though. They believed they were not taught about retirement plan by their older adults because they were the first generation immigrants in the Northwest Text. In addition because of language problem they had been unable to access to any human resources concerning retirement related issue. They have just worked hard and saved some money for life after retirement. Contrary to my assumptions retirement issue was/is the biggest one for my older adults.
․health
Most of the older persons were worrying about health care after retirement.
․fear of death
All of them showed fear of death. Most interesting and touching was not that they were afraid of their personal disaster but that they worried about their spouse after their own death.
․meaning
Most of them expressed regrets on their lifestyle which had been practiced over 25 years in America. They were so busy in getting job, earning money, raising children. One of the older persons said, "What have I done? I've just survived. I had not been faithful to God during the past two decades. I want to live more meaningfully from now on." My older adults They said the most important task of their life was/is to live meaningful lives with regard to God.
․loneliness
All of the older adults revealed the most significant inner problem was isolation from children, friends, relatives, fellow Koreans. One said, "I overcome loneliness by prayer." But most of them seemed not to know how to overcome that problem creatively and positively.
#3: What are the advantages of aging?
(This question is designed to help them define their own aging.)
․freedom from child care
The first and instant response was that they were free from child care.
․much time to learn and do something meaningful
Most of the older adults answered that they had much time to learn the Bible and to work for the church if given any opportunities.
․discernment
One of the older persons replied, "I could have discernment in seeing, thinking, responding something. I could keep tranquility in face of things at which I must have been mad when young."
․balance rather than excess
One gentleman mentioned, "When we grow older, we come to know to eat properly, sleep properly, say properly. It is never easy for us to do so when young."
․generosity
One gentleman said, "When I get older, I can understand what they are, forgive what they did wrong."
#4: What are the most difficult and regrettable in your life in America?
(This is designed to encourage them to give the younger wisdom in terms of those.)
․language
All regretted they did not learn English so hard. One lady said, "Since 1975, my first year in America, I have worked so hard. But what have I done? I am not well communicable with English spoken people. If I did, I could have learned more precious things from this society." One gentleman warned against the young adults, "I worked as a factory worker for 25 years. What have I done? I've barely survived. If I learned English harder, I could have gotten a better job and been better prepared for retirement. Learn English as you can."
․job
This was very related to language issue. One gentleman said, "Learn because you are young and get a decent job. That is to enhance your self-esteem and to calm down your economic pressure."
․communicability with their own children
One lady said, "I have used Korean with my children in my house. But it was useless because they had no chance to speak Korean at all except talking with their parents and therefore because they were unwilling to speak Korean. We were unable to take with them during their teenage. It was so sad and terrible for us to be uncommunicable with our own kids. Teach Korean language and culture in the church unless you are not fluent in English."
․retirement
All of my older persons said they were not told about retirement because they were the first generation in Lubbock. One of them warned, "Be well prepared for life after retirement."
․religiosity
One lady said, "The most regretful was I was a seldom churchgoer. Be a faithful believer in your congregation. This is the only way for you to maintain and to flourish your life meaningful."
V. Did the activity achieve its goal or purpose?
The purpose of this project was threefold. First, it is to encourage the older to tell their own experience. Second, it is to help the younger generations to understand the older people, learn wisdom from them, and find out their needs. Third, it is to recognize the importance of the ministry of aging in Lubbock Korean UMC.
In the three hour meeting the older persons talked their own stories from easy to tough issues: the younger persons could understand aging more realistically, learn wisdom from them, and identify what they need; and all participants began to understand how important the ministry of aging is. So all three goals were achieved.
VI. Did your aging perspective hold up?
My assumptions before the action ministry were threefold. The first was that the older persons grieve losses. Contrary to my assumption, my older persons are planning manageable and meaningful life after retirement. The second was that the older persons are well prepared for retirement. Contrary to my presuppotion, they are not well prepared for life after retirement. The third was that the older persons have adaptations with regard to aging. Contrary to my guess, they are embarrassed with aging. Therefore, the answer is no.
VII. How did your theological perspective hold up?
Process perspective is in general fit to the given situation. 1. Concerning 'doing and being' my older people are a lot of time to enjoy but don't know how to do so. 2. Concerning attainment of peace, they still have plan for retirement and a certain level of anxiety. 3. Concerning contribution of wisdom, yes, they definitely have wisdom. 4. Concerning dying, they want to prepare their own personal ending gracefully in intimate relationship with God.
VIII. Role of older adults.
⑴ supportive group of the pastor.
One of the important role of my older adults is their being a supportive group of the pastor. I had a turmoil in my congregation and some of young tried to drive me out of the church last year. At that time they were my strong supporters. They are not well equipped in modern technology and physical swiftness. But they are strongly upholding the stability of the pastor-parish relationship.
⑵ teacher of life and faith.
When I preach or teach, they confirm my sayings by taking examples in their own experiences. It is so powerful to make the young adults to move on to dedicated life to God.
IX. What did you learn about ministry with older adults?
I learned four things. First, my assumptions of aging were different from what is really going on around them. Second, they are the sources and resources of my ministry of aging. Based upon my first and second discovery, for the ministry of aging I'd better talk with my older adults rather than presume on my own. Third, they need resources for handling their aged life. I need help them to access to the resources of aged life by translating them into Korean. Finally, I and they should work together with aging. I learn from them and help them to handle their own aged life. They learn from me many accessible resources of aged life and teach me how to grow older gracefully before God's presence.
X. Appendix (bibliography).
Carson Dorsia, ENGAGING IN MINISTRY WITH OLDER ADULTS, The Alban Institute
Publication, 1997.
Gentzler Richard H., Jr. & Donald F. Clingan, AGING: GOD'S CHALLENGE TO
CHURCH & SYNAGOGUE, The Discipleship Resources, 1996.
Atchley Robert C., "The Continuity of the Spiritual Self" in AGING, SPIRITUALITY AND
RELIGION, edited by Melvin A. Kimble, Susan H. McFadden, James W. Ellor, and James J. Seeber, Fortress Press, 1995.
AU Thomas, Cobb John B., Jr., "A Process Theology Perspective" in AGING,
SPIRITUALITY, AND RELIGION, Fortress Press, 1995.
Vogel Linda J., "Spiritual Development in Later Life" in AGING, SPIRITUALITY, AND
RELIGION, Fortress Press, 1995.
1) Dorsia Carson, ENGAGING IN MINISTRY WITH OLDER ADULTS, The Alban Institute Publication, 1997, p.6
2) Richard H. Gentzler, Jr. & Donald F. Clingan, AGING: GOD'S CHALLENGE TO CHURCH & SYNAGOGUE, The Discipleship Resources, 1996, p. 6.
3) Ibid, p. 7
4) Ibid., p. 8.
5) Ibid, pp. 13-4.
6) Ibid, pp. 16-21.
7) Robert C. Atchley, "The Continuity of the Spiritual Self" in AGING, SPIRITUALITY AND RELIGION, edited by Melvin A. Kimble, Susan H. McFadden, James W. Ellor, and James J. Seeber, Fortress Press, 1995, p. 68.
8) Ibid., p. 69.
9) Ibid.
10) Ibid., p. 70.
11) Ibid., p. 71.
12) Linda J. Vogel, "Spiritual Development in Later Life" in AGING, SPIRITUALITY, AND RELIGION, Fortress Press, 1995, p. 75.
13) Ibid., p. 76.
14) Ibid., p. 77.
15) Ibid., p. 79.
16) Thomas AU, John B. Cobb, Jr., "A Process Theology Perspective" in AGING, SPIRITUALITY, AND RELIGION, Fortress Press, 1995, p. 444.
17) Ibid., p. 452.
18) Ibid., p. 454.
19) Ibid., p. 455.