Feeling is always a choice. Every feeling has a purpose and canbe switched to another with new thoughts. In other words, you are confused not because that‘s how you are, but probably
because you want to feel confused.
It‘s one hundred percent fine to feel whatever you want. All you need to know is that you have a choice. And if that feeling becomes a habitual thing that doesn‘t do you any good, you canchoose to stop. So, if feeling confused doesn‘t help you, stop being confused.
Stop saying, "I don‘t know." Instead, say, "It‘s okay if I don‘t
have the answers. I‘ll figure it out along the way."